This is a real conversation which occurred on October 23, 2013 between two adults, one male and one female.
[10/23/2013 8:01:23 PM] Man: hi
[10/23/2013 8:02:13 PM] Woman: hello how are you?
[10/23/2013 8:02:23 PM] Man: i am good
[10/23/2013 8:02:26 PM] Man: you?
[10/23/2013 8:02:41 PM] Woman: I am doing well.
[10/23/2013 8:02:55 PM] Man: good
[10/23/2013 8:03:02 PM] Man: what u up to
[10/23/2013 8:03:39 PM] Woman: just finished dinner, relaxing a bit before cleaning up
[10/23/2013 8:03:46 PM] Woman: and you?
[10/23/2013 8:04:08 PM] Man: relaxing
[10/23/2013 8:04:21 PM] Man: looking for a wild woman. know any?
[10/23/2013 8:04:24 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:04:44 PM] Woman: hmmm… I might have to think about that one.. lol
[10/23/2013 8:04:52 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:05:08 PM] Man: volunteering
[10/23/2013 8:05:10 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:05:40 PM] Woman: you asking if I’m volunteering?
[10/23/2013 8:06:09 PM] Woman: or are you saying you are volunteering?
[10/23/2013 8:06:39 PM] Man: i am not a woman
[10/23/2013 8:06:41 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:07:34 PM] Woman: lol
[10/23/2013 8:07:46 PM] Man: Are you wild at times?
[10/23/2013 8:08:32 PM] Woman: maybe, with the right person, and at the right time
[10/23/2013 8:08:42 PM] Man: good answer
[10/23/2013 8:11:03 PM] Woman: *smile*
[10/23/2013 8:11:32 PM] Man: it always seems tough to find
[10/23/2013 8:12:38 PM] Woman: it can be yes
[10/23/2013 8:14:35 PM] Man: yup
[10/23/2013 8:14:37 PM] Man: very
[10/23/2013 8:16:17 PM] Woman: I guess the question is what are you going to do about that?
[10/23/2013 8:17:14 PM] Man: not sure
[10/23/2013 8:17:22 PM] Man: just gets frustrating
[10/23/2013 8:18:09 PM] Woman: so you want a shoulder to cry on?
[10/23/2013 8:18:16 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:18:58 PM] Man: want a woman to please. lol
[10/23/2013 8:20:17 PM] Woman: lol.. seems you are in a quandry
[10/23/2013 8:20:47 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:22:05 PM] Man: thought it would be easier to find a woman that likes to be given orgasms. lol
[10/23/2013 8:22:52 PM] Woman: hmmm… I think you might have a problem there
[10/23/2013 8:23:50 PM] Man: lol
[10/23/2013 8:24:28 PM] Man: why
[10/23/2013 8:25:49 PM] Woman: okay this is me personally speaking, I can’t vouch for all women, but women can give themselves plenty of orgasms so in my opinion men need to be willing to offer more than just that.
[10/23/2013 8:26:54 PM] Man: such as
[10/23/2013 8:26:58 PM] Man: spankings?
[10/23/2013 8:26:59 PM] Man: dinner
[10/23/2013 8:27:55 PM] Woman: not necessarily
[10/23/2013 8:28:12 PM] Woman: how about an emotional connection?
[10/23/2013 8:28:14 PM] Man: conversation
[10/23/2013 8:28:25 PM] Man: i want emotional too
[10/23/2013 8:29:44 PM] Woman: so how would you go about making an emotional connection?
[10/23/2013 8:30:09 PM] Man: go out, talk, have some dinners, hold hands
[10/23/2013 8:30:40 PM] Woman: what would you talk about?
[10/23/2013 8:32:00 PM] Man: common things, books, movies, life
[10/23/2013 8:33:22 PM] Man: fantasies
[10/23/2013 8:33:27 PM] Man: religion
[10/23/2013 8:33:33 PM] Man: politics
[10/23/2013 8:33:40 PM] Man: meaning of life
[10/23/2013 8:34:40 PM] Woman: okay, don’t take offense, but those are superficial in my opinion, are any of those something that would make her think you are genuinely interested in her, in who she is?
[10/23/2013 8:39:43 PM] Woman: have I stumped you?
[10/23/2013 8:40:12 PM] Man: yup, you win
[10/23/2013 8:41:13 PM] Woman: this isn’t about winning. if you seriously want to touch a woman, emotionally then you need to find what touches her emotionally.
[10/23/2013 8:41:38 PM] Woman: Does she love to fly, if so why? What is it about flying that makes her love it so much.
[10/23/2013 8:42:28 PM] Woman: If something hurts her, then why, does it, has she learned to go beyond the pain and if so how.
[10/23/2013 8:42:54 PM] Woman: What has happened in her life to make her who she is, and what are her dreams.
[10/23/2013 8:42:58 PM] Man: way to deep for wednesday evening
[10/23/2013 8:43:16 PM] Woman: you said you liked emotional too
[10/23/2013 8:43:52 PM] Man: i do, just prefer in person not over impersonal computer
[10/23/2013 8:44:43 PM] Woman: I never said it has to be over a computer, but if that is all you have you can start there, get her attention start making that connection and she’ll want to meet you.
[10/23/2013 8:44:47 PM] Man: I am going to watch some mindless tv i have PVR ed
[10/23/2013 8:44:57 PM] Woman: enjoy
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